Yesterday my hubby and I celebrated 20 years of marriage. Time marches on..... quickly! I cannot believe that much time has passed. We have certainly had ups and downs, bumps along the road of life. 12 years ago our marriage was over... I was done. He was done. God intervened and brought restoration and love back into our marriage. He transformed two self-centered people into people seeking Him and wanting a marriage based on His plan. I am blessed. I have a man who loves me even though I weigh significantly more than I did in 1991. Even though hormones rage in this middle aged body. Even though I spend money when he thinks I should save it. Even though I love home improvement projects and he only tolerates them. I am blessed. Not every woman can say she has a man who loves her no matter what.
Here are some pictures of then and now:
Here is the whole family in August 2009 when my eldest son married his beautiful wife, Jenny. God is so good!
This beautiful couple is our eldest child, Jen with her fiance', Dave. They will marry this year in September. Love this guy!
So that is our family then and now. Again, God is good.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
My daughter is getting married on 9/10/11. I am in the process of making many of the things for that day. My list includes:
Birdcage veil and fascinator
Wreath for the altar area
Lace "shrug" for her to wear during the ceremony
Vintage Brooche bouquet
Purses for the bridesmaids
Resize a bridesmaid dress (from a lady's size to a girls size)
Bake corn bread muffins for 180
Bake cupcakes for 180
Make bridesmaid bouquets
I have been blessed with a multitude of gifted friends so I will be calling on their help during the next 8 months! ;)
Here are a few things I have completed.
This is the fascinator for the birdcage veil. I am not sure this is the actual brooche she will use in the center but it worked as a stand-in for the photo! The fascinator is about 5 inches across. Very pretty and vintage looking! I could not phathom paying 150.00 for a birdcage veil when they are so simple to make!
This wreath photo is what we are shooting for at the "altar" area. The wedding is outside. The ceremony area has trees surrounding it and a wreath will hang from the trees with organza draped down to two small pillars that will have boston ferns resting on them.
Progress is slow but she is a working girl living 70 miles from me so we don''t see each other often. We are planning a weekend where we can get together and work on wedding things. Some of the things I just need to get off my plate so I can feel a little less overwhelmed!
Made a skirt of a green gabardine found on a clearance shelf at JoAnn's. I use a Today's Fit pattern V2933 http://voguepatterns.mccall.com/v2933-products-5479.php?page_id=283&search_control=display&list=search
The pattern is out of print. I have had it in my stash for years. It's a cute and easy skirt but not one that you need several of in your closet! I have not really styled myself in the photo. Need to get some jewelry on and my sweater before I head out the door!
I am looking through my stash for a coordinating fabric to make a top to go with it but for today it is a brown tee with a cream sweater.
I hate photos of myself. I want to lose 15 pounds but am struggling getting the scale to move despite going to the gym and following Weight Watchers. Why must we base our worth and value on our size.... I wear a ready to wear 10/12 but find myself saying things like "you are a big fat cow". Why? Why? Why????? I am 25 pounds lighter than I was 3 years ago but I focus on the 20 pounds I gained back from my lowest point. Always the negative.... Sad.